Be The Answer for Gabe

8 11 2010

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The One That Got Away

Gabe looks terrific. He’s in excellent health. His long hair is thick and full and dark. He’s wearing new tennis shoes and very expensive looking T-shirt with a foil embossed design. The rest of the design was of a face looking up wearing sunglasses and a swirl of smoke. Gabe himself was smoking when I stepped out into the street to invite him in. He flipped the cigarette stub hidden in his hand into a pocket the moment I appeared. I insisted he pull up the baggy pants which were perched precariously above the danger line before I let him into the house. I can get away with that because I’ve known him for so long. If I hadn’t, I’d probably be afraid of him.

He’s wearing a watch that isn’t a real Rolex, but he shouldn’t be able to afford such a big and brassy knockoff. Or the new Nikes. Or the flat brimmed baseball cap set at such a jaunty angle on that tall afro. He didn’t want to talk long – he was just hoping to pick up a pair of soccer shoes I was supposed to deliver to him, a gift from my son back in the States.

The boys were the best of friends when my son lived here at the orphanage. Gabe was the son of the house manager, and he was here often. When I first met him he was fourteen years old and full of himself. He liked to alternately tease and play with the smallest children in the house. I liked having him come by because I felt having such a normal ‘big brother’ added to the family atmosphere in the house. I knew he was a little bit rough around the edges, but he minded his tongue around the kids and he gave really terrific piggy back rides.

Gabe was trying very hard in school. He wanted to learn English well enough to teach it someday. I managed to get him to call me ‘darling’, a word from his schoolbook, for a whole day before I let him know what he was saying. We all had a good laugh over that, and I called him ‘darling’ to tease him for years afterwards. Gabe always had a fine sense of humor. He was an ordinary kid. Pretty good at soccer, average intelligence, doing alright at school, hanging around with some friends that we all thought questionable and some that we liked a lot. The kind of kid that finishes high school with average grades, gets some sort of a job, and eventually falls into something that works out for him. I could picture him marrying, being a good husband and a very good father. A typical, middle class, perfectly satisfactory American life. Except that this is Haiti.

There is no ordinary job here for Gabe. In a country where the woman, begging for change in the parking lot of the pharmacy, speaks seven languages and tells me she is starving in crisp, correct English, Kreyol, and Spanish,  where there is no construction company ready to take on an ordinary kid because he’s a nice guy and he needs a job. There is no trade school with great deals on student loans and grants and an employment referral program for graduates.

This could have been my son’s story too. He’s just a few years younger than Gabe and had a very strong and well educated mother. No one in my birth son’s family can read or sign his name. But my son is on the honor roll as a high school junior. He’s worrying about which college he should choose. I don’t want to think about what Gabe  must be worrying about.

I have a starfish tattooed on my arm to remind me why I do this work. I’ll spend my whole life walking down this beach, throwing back starfish one by one, but where do you throw a starfish when there is no ocean to catch him? How can you help one lost child in a sea of lost adults, lost chances, lost hope? This one has fallen back in the sand to die in the sun, and there is nothing I can do about it.

We’re doing all we can to help in this struggling land. We have over 150 children safe within the gates. Our women’s literacy, education, and microgrant program will restart in the fall. We’re building our second free school in Jeremie. But none of that will help Gabe. He has already fallen. Forgive me darling.

Be The Answer for Gabe by helping one of the many, many wonderful organizations working in Haiti, Haitian Roots.  Six Seeds will donate $2 to Haitian Roots for every comment left after this article! Each comment has to have a unique email address, but if you have more than one address, you can comment more than once.  It’s a simple and easy way to help orphaned children, like Gabe, get the education they need!

http://sixseeds.tv/s/content/adoption/660-from_haitian_roots


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12 responses

8 11 2010
Tamra Lewis

God Bless Gabe. I wish I could do more.

8 11 2010
Stacey Bogart

We have a mighty God and Gabe is His.

8 11 2010
Yesenia

God bless Gabe and the Haitian people…our thoughts are with you.

8 11 2010
Angela

Gabe has one thing going for him: someone who cares. I believe God will use that to bless him and bless the author of this article. Perhaps Gabe can work in the school or orphanage/compound? Even as a janitor or guard?

8 11 2010
Roxanne

We serve a big God…

8 11 2010
Leah

God hasn’t forgotten Gabe or any of the oceanless starfish. Thanks for doing your part to love on Gabe, as he will let you, as you can.

8 11 2010
April

Praying for all the ‘Gabes’ out there!

8 11 2010
Tricia

Prayers for Gabe!

8 11 2010
Brittany

Praying for Gabe and all the other “Gabes” out there. Although we may think we may not be able to do anything, nothing is impossible with God. He knows the plans that He has for Gabe!!

9 11 2010
Cathy

Sending prayers and hope for Gabe – and all the other kids like him in Haiti.

9 11 2010
Laura

Thank you for all you do for the Haitian children and people we love so much!

10 11 2010
V

God has eyes in the back of his head, like a mom, and the hand of a father.

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